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Person dismissing a compliment, illustrating disqualifying the positive

Discounting the Positive

This goes a step beyond mental filtering. Instead of simply ignoring positive experiences, you actively explain them away according to your core beliefs.


Examples:

  • You receive a genuine compliment and think: "They're just being polite." (Core Belief: Nobody likes me).
  • You get promoted and think: "They had no one else to choose." (Core Belief: Nobody wants me).
  • You pass an exam and think: "It must have been easy this year." (Core Belief: I'm not good enough).

Every positive experience gets neutralised, while every negative experience is taken at face value. Over time, this creates a deeply skewed perception of yourself and your life.